Who To Blame?
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A friend of mine just found out that her boyfriend is married. The first thing I asked her, “is the guy’s wife in another city?”. Voila, she said yes. Not surprising. Now the guy’s wife kept texting her some nasty things and even challenged her that the only way my friend can have her husband is to have their marriage annulled.
Man, not that I am biased here but doing things like that is pretty pathetic. I mean, the person the wife should be unveiling her wrath to is her husband. That is the person who should be whacked! Let us say you have a boyfriend and you just found out your boyfriend is having another secret affair. Who would you blame? your boyfriend or the 3rd party?
For me, not the 3rd party. You should blame your boyfriend for succumbing to temptation. Let’s say you blame the 3rd party and you scold and do whatever it takes to have her out of both your lives. Do you think it will stop there? The blame should go to your boyfriend. This situation goes both ways … vice versa ;).
So … who to blame? What’s your take?
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